How can I be an to my girlfriend the right way?

Well my girlfriend is not used to ping out with a nice guy like myself, I kno this because she told me. In the past she would try to be a ***** on purpose so that I could put her in place but I didn't because I didn't kno that's why she was doing it, and in my mind I thought she wanted me to jus comfort her. So yea getting back to the question how can I be an hole to my girlfriend the right way and when should I do it? Btw in cl today we were talking and at one point she was laughing cause I was making her laugh and I asks what's so funny haha and he goes like your face cause i knew she was trying to be a ***** so I was like ok then so I just turned around and started talking to my friend to annoy her and keep her thinking, so she would tap me an just be like hi and I would just say sup turn around and keep talking to my friend. She got tight and walked to the door waiting for cl to end. When the cl ended I went straight to my locker when usually go to hers face. When she finished she came to my locker and I was like hold my bag and she like no why are u demanding me and I was just like come on I don't want to get my bag dirty but she wouldn't so I just put it on the ground and packed my stuff. I walked her to her next cl but he didn't let me hold my hand so I didn't but b4 I left I gave her a kiss and its not like I moved in all the way she went halfway also. Was I doing it right and what should do when I c her next